One of my struggles as an infertile woman is controlling my temper at the arrogance of some fertile couples. Some people who have never faced fertility challenges fail to appreciate the blessing that being able to conceive a child really is. I just want to smack them when I hear their complaints about things not being completely "perfect" when I would have given anything to be in their shoes.

For example, there are the people who really want a particular gender and spend a lot of time complaining about what they don't have rather than ... more