One of the hardest parts of dealing with my fertility issues was hearing about women becoming pregnant who were not even trying. Jamie Lynn Spears' recent pregnancy announcement is a good example of this. She is only 16 years old and clearly was not trying to become pregnant. And yet, here she is figuring out at sixteen how to raise a baby when thousands of married infertile women would give anything to have that kind of surprise. Sometimes life is just not fair.

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