Treatment

IUI is widely considered the "first step" when a couple begins fertility treatments beyond taking medications. I have had friends state that they are willing to try IUI, but draw the line there. They say that they won't "go as far" as attempting IVF. This decision is, if I am being brutally honest (and I am), baffling to me. IUI is more affordable and less invasive, but there are definitely risks that often are not considered when someone decides that IUI is the better bet. IUI is less effective meaning repeated tries are often necessary. When IUI is successful multiple births occur much more frequently than with IVF. The majority of multiples conceived… [more]

Monitoring your fertility by taking basal body temperature, using ovulation kits, or tracking cervical mucus can contribute to making you feel even more stressed. It brings fertility issues to the forefront on a daily basis and makes infertility an issue not to be ignored, if for no other reason than you can't and still monitor as you need to. Accurate and convenient are certainly not two words that you associate with fertility monitoring. A company out of the UK, though, is trying to change that. A new device called DuoFertility is on the market and is being touted as the most precise and convenient way to maximize your chances to conceive. The DuoFertility… [more]

I remember all to well the time when I excitedly, and with much anxiety and trepidation, began clomid treatment. I soon learned that I had very little to get excited about though, because as mentioned in another posting, clomid ended up being the worst medication for me in terms of side effects and that it never resulted in a viable pregnancy. At the time, however, I was naive about just how difficult it actually can be to conceive and thought that it was sure to work. When it was finally prescribed I had already spent many, many months searching out stories of its success or failure and was wondering why in the world my doctor had not yet… [more]

When my husband and I decided to try to have a baby we talked of our hopes and dreams for the yet to be conceived child. We both envisioned a boy first, followed by a girl, and even talked of a third whose gender was not speculated. We by no means only wanted a boy, and would not have really cared one way or the other. In our idealized picture of our family, though, there was always the first born older brother looking out for his sibling(s). As the years went by (without us having a child of either gender) we encountered many friends and family who had boys first, girls first, second children… [more]

Men get off relatively easy when it comes to infertility. The woman is advised to do all sorts of things to improve her chances of conception, but the man is often let off the hook when it comes to making lifestyle changes. Often the female partner is told to watch what she eats and drinks while the male partner (even if male factor plays a role) is rarely similarly inundated with advice revolving around not eating certain foods, drinking caffeine or alcohol, smoking, exercising or not, etc. Most couples undergoing fertility treatments do know the "rule" that the male should not ejaculate 2-3 days prior to providing a sample, but many don't know that the sperm that… [more]

As soon as we got the positive beta all I wanted to do was shout the news from the rooftops. We didn't, of course, but I was obsessed with my news and could think of nothing else. So, I began to furiously scour the internet for information on my probable due date, a progress report on stages of development in pregnancy for me and baby, and so much more. What I found often did not exactly make sense. I was unsure of the date of my last menstrual period and didn't really know if that would be accurate since it was forced by medications. I had the luxury of knowing exactly when my embryos were… [more]

Although each patient's IVF schedule is individualized according to their own personal circumstances and needs, it can often be a comfort to have a general idea of the "typical" schedule. Whether you are trying to coordinate your IVF cycle with your work schedule, or just trying to familiarize with the process and how much time it is going to take, it is helpful to understand the average length of the IVF process. I was on birth control pills prior to the official start of my cycle - which was actually probably the worst part of it all (birth control has a tendency to make me a little crazy - one good reason I guess for never having a… [more]

Historically when the economy is in shambles family size decreases and couples think more about the financial impact of having a child than they might when the economy is robust. I imagine that a down economy also affects people's approach to infertility and fertility treatments. One of the biggest stresses for me when pursuing IVF was the exorbitant cost of the treatment. When we found out that we were expecting twins, that stress about finances was amplified. We went through our IVF cycle almost two years ago, before the economic fall-out and I was still overwhelmed. I can't imagine what couples are facing today - financial stresses are tough on relationships even before infertility is thrown… [more]

If your insurance does not cover IVF it can be a very costly endeavor. Most likely you are not going to spend "extra" money frivolously or on procedures that you do not absolutely need. In our cycle, we actually did decide to opt for an elective procedure primarily for peace of mind. My fears prior to the cycle were all over the board, but they were dominated by concerns over my husband's role. He was to give his sample on the day of my retrieval and all I could think of was "stage fright." I was so worried that he would feel so much pressure to "perform" at that exact moment that he would have issues, even… [more]

When you are about to embark on an IVF cycle there is quite a bit of paperwork that must be completed. We filled out most of the required forms pretty promptly but one of them, the consent for cryopreservation, gave us pause. The human embryo cryopreservation consent form forces some pretty intense decisions and for us instigated some deep discussions that we probably would not have had without the need to answer the questions. The form asked a number of questions for which you were supposed to answer with one of three options. Option one said that the cryopreserved embryos would be made available to the other partner for control or decisions about the use. Option two… [more]